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IS A RACIAL PERSPECTIVE ALWAYS NECESSARY IN AMERICA?
07 July 202119 October 2021
Question: Does everything that happens in America have to be looked at through a racial prism? Answer: No, it doesn't have to be. But racial tension taints much of the American experience, so it's challenging to avoid its influence on...
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CAN A WHITE PERSON LECTURE BLACK PERSON ON RACISM?
07 July 202112 October 2021
Question: Can a white person lecture black person on racism? Answer: No. A white person will never fully grasp the sting and hurt of racism. How could they?
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RELATIONSHIPS
IS A ONE-NIGHT STAND IN A LONG-TERM RELATIONSHIP CONSIDERED CHEATING?
06 July 202112 October 2021
Question: If you have dated someone for five years but have a one-night stand with another person is that cheating? Answer: Yes, no matter if it is the man or woman who is cheating. Five years is a long time...
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RACE
IS THE BLACK MAN EVER RIGHT IN SOCIETY?
06 July 202112 October 2021
Question: Is the black man ever right in society? Answer: Are you out of your fucking mind? Hell no.
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SEX
HELP! I’M WORRIED MY GIRLFRIEND IS CHEATING ON ME.
06 July 202112 October 2021
Question: My girlfriend tells me she wants to have sex with me but falls asleep every night? I’m afraid she is cheating on me. What should I do? Answer: Why did you automatically assume that your wife is cheating on...
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WHO HAS IT TOUGHER? THE BLACK MAN OR THE BLACK WOMAN?
06 July 202112 October 2021
Question: Who has a tougher lot in life the black man or the black woman? Answer: That’s a tough one. While I think both have it tough, honestly, I would say the black man.
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RELATIONSHIPS
SPEND MONEY AND PRETEND TO BE RICH, OR SAVE MONEY AND ACTUALLY BE RICH?
06 July 202112 October 2021
Question: My sister complains about never having enough money, but she constantly buys miscellaneous items and hopes she's just going to miraculously become rich one day. She could have saved the money she spent on useless items and made worthwhile...
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